The 8 Types of Breakups Every Woman Must Go Through in Her Lifetime

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The 8 Types of Breakups Every Woman Must Go Through in Her Lifetime

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They say breaking up is hard to do, and we couldn’t agree more. Everyone has at least one tragic, hilarious, and/or awkward breakup story to tell. These oftentimes painful experiences are more universal than you might think. We’ve broken down eight common splitting up experiences. Maybe you’ve experienced one...or, oof, all eight of them.

1. The Text-Message Termination

If you’ve dated in the 2000s, chances are this has happened to you (or you’ve done it to someone else). Let’s be honest; sometimes it’s a relief—you might have been feeling the same way but were unable to bring yourself to have that awkward voice-to-voice conversation. Other times, it can feel like a punch in the gut. This one can also be called the, “I don’t really owe you anything” breakup or the “We just had sex once, and I have no interest in doing it again” severing of ties.

 2. The Ghost

Also known as the disappearing act. Maybe the only thing worse than being dumped by text is not being properly dumped at all! Most people would rather hear a “no” than nothing. “Ghosting” is the unofficial term for this maneuver. Cut your losses and move on, but whatever you do, no follow up “making sure you got this” messages.

3. The Quick Goodbye

This is the polar opposite of the oldest trick in the book (leaving something so you have an excuse to see them again). This kind of breakup says, “I’m so over this, I’m willing to never see that helmet I left in your trunk again.” Or you finally work up the courage to end things, and he reminds you that he still has that book you loaned him. Having no interest in bringing any more face time into this dead end, you tell him to consider it a parting gift. Then you immediately block him on Facebook.

4. The Pubic Display of Dissatisfaction

This is the worst. It’s done on neutral ground so nobody feels comfortable having an emotional reaction. What are you going to do? Have a meltdown over your skinny latte at the local Starbucks? The good news is there is sugar at your immediate disposal to numb the pain right after your former lover bids you adieu.

5. The Ill-Timed Ending

Would you rather they had waited until after Christmas passed and then maybe New Year's, okay, Valentine's Day? Because that could go on forever. There is always some sort of special occasion looming, so if you don’t do it sooner or later, you’ll find yourself justifying your inaction with crazy logic. “Well, I can’t break up with him now, Flag Day is next week, and his sister’s anniversary is the week after that—what sort of monster am I?” It’s a rabbit hole no one wants to go down.

6. The BFF Betrayal

Ouch. This one stings. It may sound like a plot for a generic romantic comedy, but it can happen in real life. How do you get through it? Depending on how deep into the relationship you were, you could be looking at the loss of a lover and a gal pal. Or maybe you felt like he’d be better for her all along! In that case, high five, matchmaker.

7. The Slow Fade

Come on, we’ve all been guilty of the fade out. One or both of you aren’t really feeling the chemistry, but no one wants to admit it. So you keep trudging it out until one day your conversation becomes, “When are we hanging out again?” “Some time soon!” and other vague promises until you both give up trying. Galloping into the sunset on horseback optional.

8. The “Things are Just Really Crazy Right Now..."

This is an updated version of, “It’s not you, it’s me.” Often doled out by someone too afraid to utter, “I’m just not that into you,” the I’m-too-busy-for-a-relationship card is a favorite among the emotionally unavailable and the intimacy-phobic. We’re usually all better off without this person, but it can still be hard to swallow at the time.


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How to Touch Her Breasts

How to Touch Her Breasts

The best ways to caress all types of breasts. Plus, fun things to do with her nipples

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Breasts are like snowflakes. Every one is unique. And a bit mysterious—which is why you need to read 5 Facts You Should Know About Her Breasts.

Know the right moves for your girl's specific body type, though, and you'll have her melting in your arms.

Large Breasts: In a study conducted at the University of Vienna, researchers found that large breasts were about 24 percent less sensitive than small ones. "This is probably because the nerve that transmits sensation from the nipple is stretched," says Alan Matarasso, M.D., a plastic surgeon in New York City. Stimulate the outer sides of her breasts, just below the armpits, with your tongue or fingertips. Make flipping motions with your tongue and even experiment with light nibbling.

    Small Breasts: They're sensitive, but they can handle more motion because of their size. Use your palms to cup and gently bounce her breasts during sex.
    Droopy Breasts: Droopy breasts can be the least sensitive—not only are the nerves stretched, but they're compressed by the breasts' weight. Have her lie on her back; it'll cause her breasts to shift up and out, relieving the tension on the nerves and helping her focus on the pleasure.
    Surgically Enhanced Breasts: If done properly, implants won't interfere with sensation. But they will move differently. Concentrate on the surface of her breasts. Use your tongue to make circles that gradually spiral in toward the nipples.
    New-Mom Breasts: Her nipples will be tender, so focus on the breasts' undersides, which are frequently neglected. Gently cup and support her breasts. It'll feel nice to her after a long day of suckling.

What About Her Nipples?

These handy barometers of desire are simple to read: Up is "on," down is "off." But they're also thermometers, popping up when the weather's cold, like giant goose bumps. The nipples are important—in fact, for some women, you can induce an orgasm just by doing breast duty. But the sensitivity of nipples varies widely; handle with care.

    Large: Because they have more nerve endings, big nipples are often hypersensitive, so don't be too aggressive when applying pressure, Dr. Matarasso says.
    Small: The areola—the dark-colored circle that surrounds the nipple—is actually more sensitive than the nipple itself. Focus especially on the upper quadrant of her breast, between 10 and 2 o'clock. It's the most sensitive part of the bull's-eye.
    Inverted: One study has shown that 3 percent of women have innies. The cause: genetics. The nerve endings in breasts with inverted nipples are no different from those of any other nipples. "Often, women with inverted nipples may be more sensitive emotionally because they may feel that their nipples aren't normal," says Shirley Zussman, Ed.D., a sex therapist in New York City. Reassure her with compliments about her breasts. You can lure the nipples out if you're persistent with touching, kissing, licking, and gentle sucking.

How to Double Your Pleasure During Sex

Compliment her on how her breasts feel early in foreplay. According to a UCLA study, women unhappy with their breast size are 16 times more likely to hide their breasts during sex—and where's the fun in that? "Comment on her high responsiveness to stimulation," says Patti Britton, Ph.D., a clinical sexologist. "It takes the emphasis off of how they look." Then use these strategies to make the most of your turn-on type.

You're a Small Boobs Man
Men who like small-breasted women—and there are millions of them—are often seeking a more submissive, non-threatening partner, says psychologist Stuart Fischoff. Also, you may get the psychological hint that she’s not trying to compete with other women who have larger breasts, and therefore she’ll be loyal to you. Or maybe the very first girl you had a crush on had small breasts, and if she constructed your earliest example of what’s sexy, her memory may still lead you to find small-breasted women exciting.

To maximize your arousal, have her stretch during missionary-position sex, by straightening her arms above her head. Anything that makes her appear long and lithe will flatten her breasts and stroke your primal urges.

You're a Big Boobs Man

Some researchers have theorized that human breasts evolved to be so preciously pendulous because, well, they need to do the work a baboon’s backside does in attracting a mate. “Unlike a baboon, a human woman walks upright and needs to have her sexual attributes up front,” says sex therapist Michael Perry. So, in a sense, her breasts may be a frontal derrière. In fact, the visual qualities of the breasts and the behind aren’t all that different. “Also, men and women look for differentiation in their sex partners,” says Perry. We already bring flat and hard to the bedroom; we need something curvy, supple and bouncy to make us feel complete.

Put her on top so she faces you and let her do the bouncing. For a fuller experience, have her hold her breasts together and do the movement thing you’ve seen in the porn movies. Just be gentle and use plenty of lubricant; she’s not built to handle harsh friction up there.



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Happy Couples Are Having This Much Sex. How Do You Stack Up?

Happy Couples Are Having This Much Sex. How Do You Stack Up?>

    

You don’t have to get busy in the bedroom every night to keep a smile on your face—or hers. Couples who have sex more than once a week aren’t any happier that those who do the deed weekly, suggests new Canadian research.

In the study, people in relationships who had sex once a week reported greater overall happiness—and greater satisfaction with their partners—than those who had sex less often.



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But those who had sex more often than that didn’t receive any additional boosts of wellbeing.

Once a week seems to be the average frequency among established couples, says study author Amy Muise, Ph.D., of the University of Toronto Mississauga. So it’s possible that people may feel happiest when they think they’re hitting that benchmark, she says.

“People may also feel this is enough to maintain their intimate connection with their partner,” says Muise.

Related: How to Pleasure a Woman—Make Every Time Her Best Yet with This Ultimate Sex Manual

Now, there isn’t much science behind this study, as the participants simply reported their satisfaction.

Bottom line: While you may want to have more sex, having it a few times a week isn't going to make you any happier with your life—or with your partner—than if you did it once a week.

So if your schedules make it hard to get busy more than once a week, you don't need to feel like you’re dooming your relationship.

“It’s not necessary, on average, for couples to aim to engage in sex as frequently as possible,” she says



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